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10 Common Dating App Mistakes You Might Be Making

Are you swiping on Pyar.com all day and still not finding love? If you're lucky, you've had some chats, but usually, you never even cross that first hurdle. If you're not getting enough matches, you might be making these common online dating mistakes.

Common Mistakes Made on Dating Apps

1. You haven't posted any interesting photos

When online dating, photos are crucial for making a great first impression. If your profile picture is boring, the person looking at them will think you are as well. Upload clear photos that show you smiling and having fun. Your photos should be a true reflection of who you are without being misleading. Feel free to post photos of your hot sports car, cute pets and quirky hobbies to really showcase your personality.

2. Show your face as well as your full body

It's good to display interests and hobbies in your photos, but people want to see the whole package. A full body shot gives you a chance to flaunt your best attributes, like long legs or toned arms. If you aren't showing the full picture, you aren't being mysterious -- just hiding what people want to see. Don't cover your face with sunglasses, coffee mugs or your hands. You are much more likely to get a match when the other person can see what you look like!

3. You post too many selfies

Don't upload too many selfies, even if there's space for them. Use one or two selfies at most. Refer back to rule 1 and 2 -- advertise your hobbies, figure and personality.

4. You are lying on your profile

Many people admit to lying about their height, weight, age and physique on their profile, but lying is not a good foundation for any relationship. If you're a little short, don't claim that you're six feet tall. Height can often be a deal-breaker for a lot of people, and they'll want to know how you measure up before going on a date. The end goal in onling dating is to meet the person, so they will eventually find out if you're lying.

5. You're too picky or idealistic

Don't base what you want off a bullet list of characteristics in your mind. This kind of idealism will lead to unsuccessful first dates. You can enjoy dating someone who doesn't 100 percent match your vision of an ideal mate without compromising your values.

6. You're bad at conversing

First impressions are everything, and you sell yourself with your photos, profile and first message. When you finally get a match, a simple "Hello" doesn't cut it. It's better to mention something specific you read in their profile, so they know you read it. Refer to their hobbies or favorite food. It's important to be interesting if you want them to reply back.

7. Your profile is distasteful or rude  

Even if your profile is a suitable length, what you write in still matters. If your profile makes you come off as rude or unlikable, no one will want to talk to you. Don't act like you're too good for online dating or badmouth your ex. Others things to remove: insults, bad grammar, anything overtly sexual.

8. You post pictures of the opposite gender

It's inevitable that you will have pictures with friends, but avoid uploading too many of you and your friends -- especially ones of the opposite sex. If someone doesn't know you, they might get the wrong impression. For example, they might assume it's an ex, a sister or someone you're interested in romantically. 

9. Avoid the urge to get your hopes up

It can be very easy to believe you've found the one after a day chatting, but avoid the urge to get your hopes up until you meet in person. Be patient and polite, taking things one step at a time. Otherwise, you might come on too strongly.

10. Don't divulge too much personal information

Dating apps are a tool to you get to meet in person, so don't offer up a lot of personal information... especially before you've met in person. Your match doesn't need your phone number if you're chatting on the Pyar.com app, and you should never give out intimate information like your address.

Contributor, February 25, 2019

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